Wednesday, February 15, 2017
If you've been heart broken by a lover or life you need time to heal. In terms of lover you need to stay single. It is not a good idea for others to be handling a heart that is broken.
A heart who has met love before can be addicted to love or even the idea of love and it will seek it out hard. It will act as a dying thirsty man or woman who sees water in a mirage. (mirage is a naturally occurring optical phenomenon in which light rays are bent to produce a displaced image of distant objects or the sky.)
So you see attention and mistake it for love. Or you see friendship as a loud mating calling of love. Heart break unhealed will cause more damage to your heart and to those are you.
Then there are those who know your heart is weak and they prey after you. These are the people I do not like. They will use your vulnerability to force you into a one sided beneficial relationship. For money, sex, or attention.
Everyone you've met might not be a jerk perhaps you have a broken heart and you need to recover.
This process is different for everyone. There is no time line or direct answers but being aware of your emotional hearts condition helps so much. I would suggest that you do some emotional heart healthy things.
These things will give your heart a chance to heal. You'll notice your faults in the heart break and the fault of the other person. You'll notice that you can try it again but you'll admit and declare your non negotiable issues. You'll make sure your lines remain in place until ready and gradually increase the closeness.
You'll then notice you can love again. That you've recovered from a heart break.