I use to be a person in prison by my thoughts and "what IF's" I had horrible Anxiety!!!
I use to be so concerned about my future I never actually experienced my current reality. I know so many people that get stuck in place that is not here and they miss out on life. I know most people always put pressure on living in the past but I would like to add equal pressure to those who live in the future to much.
I remember when I met my "first love" my first thought was oh my goodness what if this ends. We ended up together for a few years but I can hardly remember any of it because I was so concerned I was going to mess up I never really relaxed in the thought that I had someone who was in love with me.
I think that many people are there. I know people who have great opportunities before them but they won't maximize the opportunity because they are to scared to mess up. It will paralyze you from taking the risk required to succeed in being you and being great. There is no real plan for success. Everyone has a different definition of success and I tend to believe success is being totally you and being rewarded for it.
Throughout the years I've made so many mistakes. I have failed several times and I'm pretty sure I will fail again. I don't mind failing, because sooner or later I will get it right. I don't believe I can fail at the same thing forever and have a memory. Like you should remember where the whole is.
Here are five things I do to help keep me current and not worrying about my future:
That's all from my pen... (don't judge my grammar I'm not an English Teacher)